10 Jun

How to Date a Girl Effectively

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With the proliferation of online dating sites, finding a date is fairly easy these days, especially for the lucky few who have the looks that are sure to boost the chances of an initial contact. Getting a date and dating, however, are two different things, and the latter is often a lot more challenging. This is especially true if you are dating a Hindu. How do you get it right the first time?

Know and Respect the Culture
If you are a Hindu yourself, being respectable should not be a problem. Unless, of course, if you are a jerk by nature. Dating, regardless of culture, demands respect in every level, but you need to do more when it comes to Hindu and other conservative cultures. In Hindu tradition, dating is unheard of, especially since the bride and groom will only see each other during the wedding. But times are changing. Still, knowing and respecting the local culture is a vital step.

Be Your Best
No need to be presumptuous or pretentious, but you should be at your best, especially on a first date. It is vital that you make a good impression to get a second, third or fourth date. Confidence is a really attractive trait, so is being able to carry a fun and intelligent conversation. Avoid being arrogant at all times.

Most importantly, be genuine. Most people can tell straightaway if you are pretending to be someone you are not. It is also a real bummer to stay on top of your lies the entire duration of your date.

Present Yourself Well
The idea is to make an impression on the first date. So dress appropriately for the situation and location. If you feel comfortable and confident in what you are wearing, you will feel just as confident, increasing your chances of impressing a man or woman.

Only a few people would likely say that dating effectively is easy. But when you do get everything right, everything would just fall into place. It is also important that your agenda is to get to know someone at a deeper level and not for anything shallow or kinky.

01 Jun

How to Ask Someone Out on a Date

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Weigh your chances of getting a positive reply
An outright “no” often happens if you ask someone out during the first few minutes of meeting them. If you have already crossed the part where the two of you are just acquaintances, you can proceed to gauge someone’s interest in going out with you based on body language and responses. If she is somewhat close or uninterested, move on to the next prospect.

Be very specific about the details
“Want to have dinner with me this Friday” is a lot better than “we can have dinner or something”. Something what? It is important to be very clear about what you have in mind. You can even go as far as getting down to specifics. People tend to relax when they get a clear picture of what you are proposing.

Prepare several options
Although being specific is good, allowing room for flexibility is just as good. You can add an alternative to your suggestion, especially if the problem is the schedule. Most people may say no to one thing and then yes to another. So be ready with other plans.

Allow the person time to think about it
If you struggle to ask someone out, the other person may struggle to say yes. If you do not put pressure with your offer, you can avoid an outright rejection.

Whoever said asking someone out on a date is a walk in the park probably has Lady Luck on his side. You can be just as successful with the tips listed above. So, single Hindus out there, take the first step.